originally pallavi

Sunday, October 29, 2006


hi every one.. im here again with a new post.after a long time,actually i went to my home in diwali.it was a good trip. hince it include some bitter things also.you must be thinking what bitter.actually bitter contents as usual lectures from parents ofcourse about our career.as every normal guy or gal has to listen it..what will you do in your future,go for some good thing,we have always told you to do this but you never heard us.we want best for you,do some thing which let us feel proud on you.every thing which they have said was some how right.i know they said so because they love me and really want to seee me at a good place in future. but after all these conversation the first question that srtikedd in my mind was HOW CAN I MAKE THEM PROUD ON ME. yeah i know how by cracking some good compitative exams by scoring good in my exams by getting a good respect full job. a good RESPECT FULL JOB.so what is a good repect full job. after my graduation i have heard of this word a lot of time.but im not able to draw what is a good respect full job. earnig good amount? having a good post?a job which make others to respect us? might be sum of all these things.but when ever i think, i have obersved my self ultimatly my requirments ends on having peace and happyness in life, i kept thinking on both of the things in my whole journey of return to delhi. i thought is earning by your efforts is not respect full, not asking for pocket money from your parents is not respect full. what ever is that. what is more important fullfilling your dreams or having a good position.what if i wont get satisfied after achiving a good position in future. and what if i left my opportunity for postgraduation for my short termed dreams where i ill be after that... hell lot of questions and still on the way to find the answer.. i know i will get that if not soon then must be before my would be kid got in to this vicious circle

18 Comments:

  • At 10:22 AM, Blogger arvindh said…

    Good luck finding something that is enjoyable and meaningful to you.

     
  • At 12:57 PM, Blogger punjabi~car~freak! said…

    I am in the same boat as you!

    my parents are on d same worried tracks

     
  • At 6:54 PM, Blogger sanjay jha said…

    nameste pallavi,
    thank you for dropping in.
    all the best in all you do...
    cheers
    jhaji.

    PS-you can always make your parents proud by doing what you like and do the best...
    link me to your blog.

     
  • At 9:44 PM, Blogger Prashant said…

    confused kya???????
    close your eyes.....smile....look at the sky.....and dont think for a while......

     
  • At 10:08 PM, Blogger Sreejith Kumar said…

    Home for Diwali! That is so nice.... Advices!!!!! Hahhahaha!

     
  • At 2:52 AM, Blogger vibhor said…

    hello pallavi,
    very crucial time of ur career.
    its better to make little extra efforts as ur parent's wish and ur dreams came clashing here. just think about what will be pros and crons and whats the opportunity cost for each decision you want to take..
    going for a respectful job and at another's side going for ur postgraduation graduation both are imp. you just have to give a priority but remember one thing if you get a break from studies then its very difficult to start it again..
    anyways..good wishes to you...

     
  • At 3:37 AM, Blogger Raghav said…

    just do what u want to, of course for that u need to be sure of what u want !
    and there lies the trick, well it will come to with time, trust me it always does.
    and as far as making ur parents happy and proud is concerned, thats easy, just be happy and successful with whatever u do, and they will be happy too.

     
  • At 7:30 AM, Anonymous Sharique said…

    Well my suggestion...just do what you do best and things will come unfold themselves...you just have to worry about being career oriented and not getting into things which hurt your parents

     
  • At 10:13 PM, Blogger mona said…

    hi pallo,
    i know what you are feeling right now and how you are analysing whole thing but dear the fact is that you have to fight ur own..
    no one is going to help not even me..becoz nobody can feel ur situation and you can came out of this problem also as you had also before..
    just thing whats ood and whats not ..dont do anything in hurry and yes read the omens..
    remember that line from alchemist- when you make a wish, whole universe conspire to acheive it.
    just chase ur dreams and you you have tha begginer's luck just remmber all that and go ahead..
    everybody will understand you if not now but they will definetily be...
    just close ur eyes , visualze ur dream and think its a step away...
    and me, ur life line is always for you..
    just relax and keep fighting...
    take care..

     
  • At 4:48 AM, Blogger Photography said…

    thanx for that comment pallavi :-)

     
  • At 4:52 AM, Blogger pallavi said…

    hi every one thanks for dropping here any ways its a smallest part of my confusion i have lot of questions will post that in near future

     
  • At 9:30 PM, Blogger Archana Bahuguna said…

    Good luck :-). I am sure you will do well, hoping u are not thinking or worrying too much :-) tc.

     
  • At 7:28 AM, Blogger der Bergwind said…

    confusion is the catalyst that fuels the pulse of life... n well, ya, we live this life in, partz, for otherz :) to be or not to be.. to prove, to do so many hara kiri, sumwhere the namesake is lost... still hope sumday, sumway.. the 'juice wud be worth the squeeze' :)

     
  • At 6:56 AM, Blogger Jeseem said…

    confusions galore :)
    reminds me of when i was coming out of college.
    well best of luck n waiting for more questions escaping from that overworked thinking mind on to the blog.

     
  • At 4:51 AM, Blogger Priyankari said…

    Hi,
    I guess u need to give urself some time to think...think about your priorities, plan what u need to do to reach ur goal and move accordingly. Donot take hasty steps so that u may get a shine in the present but u have to regret in the future... start introspecting and once u r clear within, let ur parents know...They are sure to understand and u all will feel better.
    Don't worry and keep smiling:)

    Thanx buddy for visiting my blog. Hope to see you there again.

     
  • At 5:08 PM, Blogger Keshi said…

    sometimes it's just good to dream without expecting them to be real...

    hugggggggz Pallavi!
    Keshi.

     
  • At 12:09 AM, Blogger mojindro said…

    pallavi
    sometimes it is better not to think for a while and flow with the stream...

     
  • At 4:46 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    do i need to mention who i am....anywayz palz....wont advice u on this....am on my way to bigger disasters....hope u find ur shore and land safe....and as u said comments should b short....here is a short one

     

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